"Patience"
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The secrets of shaving with a single-blade razor are angle, pressure, and patience. And we've been applying these concepts to addressing sin in our brother's life (Matt. 7:3-5). So far, we've covered the angle we take in correction, coming from a place of humility and friendship. And the pressure we apply, with gentleness and wisdom.
Finally, let's talk about removing the "stubble" of sin in our brother's life, addressing how much patience we should have.
Patience in Shaving
The first pass with the razorblade is usually not enough to achieve the desired smoothness. About 2-3 passes are required. Be patient and don't try to rush it! But how much patience should we have when correcting a brother?
Bearing With One Another In Love
"with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace" (Eph. 4:2-3).
We can't always expect immediate change overnight. Patience isn't natural, but when we consider how patient and loving our God is toward us, we'll have a much easier time extending that patience to others. We shouldn't write anyone off because of their sins, but be patient with them and help them reach maturity — because we love them. So, are we willing to bear with each other? Or do we expect an immediate transformation?
Willing to Forgive Them
"Pay attention to yourselves! If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him, and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, 'I repent,' you must forgive him" (Luke 17:3-4).
Seven times in a day?! We must be willing to extend forgiveness as we've been forgiven — without limits! God doesn't hold a grudge or hang our sins over our heads, and we shouldn't do the same with those we love who are getting over sins. So, are you willing to forgive? Or are you harboring a grudge that you're unwilling to let go?
It's not easy, convenient, or fun to sit down and tell someone they're in sin. But we need to find the courage and love for their souls to step in and help! It's a delicate operation, but we need to be willing to do it.
So, let's be willing to forgive each other — as we've been forgiven — and welcome a brother back when they've made the necessary corrections.
